Sweeten Him Up

Every person likes some kind of candy or dessert. If you make his favorite sweet-tooth item, and surprise him with it after a long day of work, not only will he feel pampered he will know how devoted you are to both him and your relationship. Often, it is the little things we do that stick out the most. You do not have to prepare some lavish celebration making it known that he is yours and that you are his every day of the week. You just need to come up with little ways to keep him happy and satisfied.

Rub the Pain Away

After a long day of work nothing feels better then a back massage. If you are good with your hands you can definitely rub away the tension in his back. Even if you aren't very good at it, the effort will be appreciated. Of course, back rubs are quite intimate in nature. When you have him take of his shirt rub oil on his back - and soon he will be experiencing pure bliss. Your heavenly hands may actually be a prelude that leads into other kinds of foreplay.

Wham Bam Thank You Man Won't Cut It

Every once in a while a quickie is a fun necessity to relive tension caused by chaotic daily events. The reason it is called a 'quickie' is because it is quick. It is not meant to be the average sexual encounter, nor should it be. If you seem more comfortable with quickies your lover will soon be bored, and, chances are you will, too. It's not worth it if he's wanting to head to greener pastures - especially when you are fully hoping to make it work. This is why it is important to give him the whole package… and then some.

One thing to consider is how much better you will get with practice. So, it is quite possible to believe that you only get better over time. Make it a personal goal to strive to be better then you were the last time you had sex. Alternate positions, try new things, incorporate toys for variety, and always include some form of foreplay for ultimate satisfaction. If he is always remarking about how wonderful you are then you've definitely done your best for the evening. Not every man is Casanova. However, he will appreciate the effort because it will be clear you have his best interests at heart.

Being romantic does not have to be a difficult task. It doesn't always have to include sex, but intercourse is a part of the package he receives when you become an official couple. Ultimately, if he's satisfied in - or out - of bed, but not satisfied on both levels, he may be considering finding a new man, and as long as you've been together it may not be worth losing him in the end.

The Two Secrets To Great Sex - Each and Every Time

Are some men just better lovers than others? Yes, and no! What makes anyone a good lover all boils down to two very basic sexual moves. Number one is 'desire'. When someone is so ravenous for you that you feel they could just eat you up, you'll have the best sex with them ever - and over any other lover. A very real trick to making your lover satisfied in bed is to show uncontrollable lust and desire for them . You want them to feel that it is not about the 'sex', but about the sex with 'them' that turns you on so much. Be a lover who is uncontrollably HOT for HIM. Display a lust for him that is incomparable to that of any of his previous lovers, and give him the impression that you have an insatiable, unquenchable thirst for him. Remember, nothing will make us more attracted to another than their own attraction to us will! If you appear to not be able to get enough of this desirous and delicious man this will make him feel very sexy and wanted and desired and SATISFIED! You have become a very skilled lover, and you've mastered the first secret to making your man feel satisfied. And what's this first secret?...AGAIN, desire - making him feel like he is the most delicious man you have ever had.

Secret number two is 'enthusiasm'. The second secret to satisfying a man is probably the most valuable secret you will ever learn. Certainly, it has been my most valuable sexual lesson. Enthusiasm for your mate - not just enthusiasm for the sex act, itself, but for the sex act with him. Remember the word 'PULL'. P.U.L.L. Pure Uncontrollable Lustful Longing for him. Pure lust for that awesome sexual being you are about to conquer and devour. If you are not totally into your mate... if you are not showing him just how desirable he is... if you are not enthusiastic to the point where he doesn't feel like the god of all your dreams... if you are not displaying extreme and overt want and desire and enthusiasm for gorgeous him-his feel, his smell, his taste... then he is not going to be sexually fulfilled. Bottom line. Your man wants you to BLOW HIS MIND with your lust for him! He not only wants to be stroked, kissed, and caressed-he wants you to be so INFLAMED with desire for him that you take him as if he were the HOTTEST man in the world and you just can't control your undying lust for him. Devour him with passion. Moan in ecstasy... but only in ecstasy for him. Use his name! Don't say, "mmmm, that feels good" .. say "GAWD, (place his name here) ...MMMmmmmMmm - YOU JUST FEEL SO DAMNED GOOD, MAN!"

For more information read Man to Man: The Ultimate Guide to Gay Sex.

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