| Does Penis
Size Really Matter? Some are short and some are long, but it seems that no matter what type of man you are, penis size is something that you question at one point in your life. I have yet to meet a man that thinks his penis is perfect just the way it is. Most of them seem to think it isn't large enough and I've known some pretty large men. You will come to find that no matter how small or large, thick or thin, straight or crooked, your penis is that you can still be a successful lover. Size is more a 'mental issue' for the owner of the penis - as opposed to the boys that you choose to have worshipping it. In a flaccid state most men feel their penises are just too small. Some feel the same way with a hard penis. So, does size matter? To you it might - but the good news is that during a sexual relationship it doesn't, or rather it shouldn't matter. If you are one of the boys that have checked out the size of other guys penises while in a locker room, and you've wondered whether he is large - or you're just small - there are a few things you need to understand. For starters, the smaller a flaccid penis is the larger it is going to become when it is hard. If your penis is enormous when flaccid you may have noticed it does not grow much when it is erect. However, if your penis is only a few inches it is possible to see it grow to seven-, or even eight-, inches when in its erect state. If you do not have a penis that is eight inches, or more, there is certainly no reason to be upset. According to medical professionals the average penis is somewhere between 5.5 and 6.5 inches. Although, I do recall a study of a national magazine a few years back that profiled 100 men and asked them anonymously for their penis size. The average answer was 3 inches. So, if you fall in this range you shouldn't be upset. It's not that you are not average, it's just that the average isn't as high as you think it might be. If you are worried about pleasing your partner you don't need to assume the size of your penis is going to have anything to do with it. In fact, most men are going to be more worried about their own penis size - and far less about yours. Being a good lover has little to do with size and more to do with action and reaction. Sexually pleasing your partner can be done in a number of ways. If you are in tune with your partner's needs - and he is in tune with yours - you will have a good time in bed. You should not worry about the size of your penis, but instead worry about how to please your partner. If you do this you'll have a much more satisfying time with your lovers. Some things to consider As you probably know there are numerous positions - some more inventive than others - that you can get into with your lover. Each position that you try is going to give you both a different sensation. Sex standing up is going to feel much different than if you are in a doggy-style position with one person behind the other (who may be bent over). The same can be said with the bottom lying on his back vs. the bottom being on top of the top. If you are seriously worried about your size and the pleasure you are giving your partner try out various positions until you find one that gives him a maximum amount of pleasure. It is highly likely that you will find he likes a number of positions, and that many things that you do with him will feel excellent - regardless of the size of your penis. |
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